Marriage is not Epic Fantasy; POV and the Dangers of Intimacy

“Even after twenty years together, my wife/husband/partner still surprises me every day!”

When I hear comments like this, I know I’m supposed to say, “Shucks, isn’t that sweet!” Instead, I want to call bullshit. If you spend twenty years with a person and they still surprise you on a daily basis, either you haven’t been paying very close attention, or you’re married to someone with a serious personality disorder.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I love my wife, and marrying her was one of the two best things I’ve ever done (the other being having a kid). However, if we made a list of the wonderful things about our shared life, “Daily Unplumbed Mystique Coupled with the Bass Thrum of Bottomless Mystery” probably wouldn’t appear near the top.

Not to say that Jo doesn’t feel an occasional shiver of unanticipated pleasure when I do something unusual like unloading the dishwasher all the way. Or that I don’t find myself staring when she says it’s actually ok to have an “October Beer and Mud Sports Festival” in our backyard. Still, we don’t tend to shock each other all that often because after five years together, we know each other. Mostly. Which I have to think is sort of the point of a long-term commitment like marriage.

Marriage, however, is not epic fantasy.

The intimate familiarity that can make a romantic relationship so rich and secure can be anathema to the fantasy reader. After all, if we’re looking for a familiar story, we don’t tend to open books with paintings of half-orcs battling ice trolls beneath a sky spangled with blood-red stars. Now, obviously not everything about a great fantasy is mysterious and unusual. We need some contact with our own lives, contact that usually comes through a character or group of characters whose intellectual make-up and emotional responses are recognizable, familiar.

If all of the characters are cozy and familiar, however, if they all seem like our aunts and car mechanics and friends, we start missing out on the epic in epic fantasy. After all, we come to the genre expecting certain characters to be mysterious and larger-than-life, unfathomed and unfathomable. We should be able to relate to Sam and Frodo (even if we don’t agree with everything they do or think), but when we’re reading about Gandalf, we probably shouldn’t be thinking, “Yeah, I totally get what it’s like to be the Servant of the Secret Fire; I hated wielding the fucking Flame of Anor.” The story would be weak if Galadriel, who has lived through the three ages and thousands of years, seemed just like Jessie, the pigeon-toed brunette from that cocktail party you were at a few weeks ago.

Most fantasy writers understand all of this intuitively. Fantasy novels are replete with truly epic characters: gods and immortal mages, inscrutable dragons and sentient battle-axes. There is mystery. There is awe. There are unresolved questions.

One of the most potent tools in maintaining this mystery is point of view. Many of these larger than life characters aren’t POV characters, meaning we never get inside their heads. They can utter grand pronouncements or rattle off impossibly witty quips page after page, and they never seem too normal, too familiar (if handled well) because we only see what the writer lets us see. The POV keeps the mystery intact.

There is, however, a danger. Often, these secondary characters, due to exactly the mystery and awe just mentioned, become fan favorites. To take just one example, consider Boba Fett, the masked bounty-hunter from Star Wars. In the original three movies (episodes IV, V, and VI), Fett has a very small role, but people love him, he has his own fan club – and people want more of the characters they love. When this happens, the author (or film maker) is pressured to explain, to reveal, to expose psychology and backstory. Such explanations jeopardize the very foundation of the reader’s initial interest in the character.

And this is where POV comes into play. If we’re in Gandalf’s head, we know every time he has to take a dump, every time his gout acts up, every time that luxurious beard itches. None of that is necessarily bad. Sometimes it’s extremely effective to puncture the bubble of mystery and awe. Given the difficulty of unpuncturing bubbles, however, it’s well worth thinking about what will be lost through greater revelations, what will be destroyed through intimacy.

Peter Watts, in addition to being one of the best sci-fi writers around, understands this. His brilliant novel, Blindsight, involves a ship filled with misfits captained by a hyper-intelligent vampire named Sarasti. Watts makes the crucial decision to keep us out of the vampire’s mind, and he goes a step further: not only does he keep the reader in the dark about Sarasti’s motives and emotional make-up, even the other characters in the book are baffled by him. They often don’t understand his tactical decisions or the reasoning behind them, and Sarasti himself makes little effort to explain himself. “You can’t follow,” is his response to the questions of his crew. Those three words, in cutting off any avenue of inquiry, open up an entire world to our imaginations.

Of course, I wouldn’t want to be married to Sarasti, but damn is he fun to read about.

13 thoughts on “Marriage is not Epic Fantasy; POV and the Dangers of Intimacy

  1. To even have my husband unload the dishwasher part way would render me speechless.

    I agree about your comments on having to ‘reveal’ more about a character, and how it can unravel the basis on which people like this character. Some of my characters are my favorites simply because I have an idea in my head of who they are, one that wasn’t put their by the author.

    Brian, you never fail to disappoint.

  2. Brian, I’ve been following your blog for some time, and at WorldCon I saw the “Tor Presents” panel. I was surprised to see Marco Palmieri make the presentation for your upcoming book, since he is the editor to whom I have submitted my own manuscript. He spoke in such effusive terms about your book and when I mentioned I’ve been following your blog he offered to send me an ARC. Long story short, I’ve read The Emperor’s Blades and I was blown away. Congratulations on such an awesome debut, not to mention a great blog!

    • Thanks, Mark! Thrilled to hear you enjoyed The Emperor’s Blades — the first draft of Book Two is finished and three is on the way. Marco is a great guy and a wonderful editor. Best of luck with your submission! Any chance you’ll be at ComiCon this weekend?

  3. Well said, Brian. You seem to have explained a big part of why Star Wars I, II, and III disappointed many viewers. People either liked the mystery of these larger than life characters or had imagined their own back-story. George Lucas had an almost impossible task, it’s understandable why he waited so long.

  4. Hi Brian!

    I saw your panel at NYCC this weekend, and (by a fluke of poor counting by the volunteers in charge of the line) my wife got one of the last copies of your book at the signing you had. I’m glad she did, because I blew through that business in a day and a half, to the detriment of all the nearly-literal-Sword-of-Damocles work hanging over my head, and it was fantastic. So good in fact, that it’s going to be the methadone I recommend to my friends as they come down from finishing the Wheel of Time series.

    Normally I wouldn’t bother saying anything since who the hell am I? and others have said it better and with more gravitas, but coming across this: “The Emperor’s Blades — the first draft of Book Two is finished and three is on the way” made me exceedingly happy, and I felt the need to communicate that.

    Mission Accomplished.

    • Thanks so much, Bobby! Just thrilled to hear you enjoyed the book. There have been a number of review copies out in the wild for a few months now (hence the reviews on Goodreads), but handing out fifty new ones at NYCC was almost as nerve-wracking as it was exciting. You’re the first reader I’ve heard back from, and it’s great to hear that at least one copy found a happy home. Thanks for taking the time to get in touch!

  5. Nice to see Watts’s “Blindsight” get a shout-out — I read it last week and it’s amazing. Btw he actually has a book coming out next year that takes place on Earth at the same time the events in “Blindsight” are unfolding, I’m super-excited to read it.

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